D, author of Having Sex, Wanting Intimacy. But while the butt-naked you may not be hitting the same arousal buttons as her bared bod does in your eyes, you can be sure that she is checking you out nonetheless. All of you. So when you drop trou in her presence, keep the following intel in mind. Are they clean? Pay attention to basic grooming and trimming. Consider a pedicure—or some at-home grooming such as using a little bit of coconut oil on the rough spots can do the trick.
It can be awkward AF ?
What she’s thinking:
Like, 'Nope, that's her second belly button. I think I was just young and couldn't believe it. It was really hairy. I think, really, I just saw my mom's friend's pubic hair. I was maybe 10 years old. I just thought, I don't see what the big deal is. I got down there and was overwhelmed a bit, I guess. So I was feeling nervous, and to ease the tension, I looked up at her and said, 'I hope this thing came with instructions! Every time I think about it, I want to lie down on the floor and fall asleep forever. Those are, like, two separate tiers.
It can be exhilarating, exciting, ecstatic and plenty of other adjectives that begin with an e. All stories that I could go to work the next day with and regale with glee. In fact, many of my pals find it downright nervewracking! Unless you still live at home. Or with your grannie. Or with your ex. So I bailed like a coward making up a myriad of dreadful excuses and sent him on his way. Poor guy. Well, once again give it a go! Just make sure the holder of this weapon of mass destruction understands the importance of foreplay.
So you've been dating your guy for a while or hey, maybe 10 minutes and now it's the moment of truth What's he thinking as the lights go low? You may assume you know what's running through the male brain, but believe us, you have no idea. While you're obsessing about leg stubble and trying to remember if your bra and panties match, a guy's dirty mind is all over the map. Cosmo grilled a bunch of men for the raw details on what he's really thinking the first time you get it on. You don't want her to open the closet and say, 'What the hell is a dried-up spaghetti dish doing on the floor? Do I have candles and incense and flowers? No, that's trying way too hard.