I don't think you necessarily need to cut ties with her. In many ways, you yield some authority to the church. Take issues as they arise, rather than throwing away what could be a good experience for you and her based off of what might happen. How do you really feel about that. It would be foolish to acquiesce a Mormon girl to drink coffee. The first year is mostly research with regular hours followed by those daunting 3 years.
All that being said, no one can tell you what is right for you except Heavenly Father. He is truly my soulmate and I shudder to think that if I had not chosen to marry outside of the church, I would not have had this life with him. The Mormon girl has the light of Christ shining through her, and you were drawn in. It's a great idea to know where you stand so that you'll be prepared when this comes up in conversation. I'll tell her that we are strictly friends for now on. Also, I know a bunch of Mormons that say they are, but don't act like it. Someone or something always has his attention and focus. It has been closed. Joanna в this is one of your best.
It would behoove you in this situation to act like a kid yourself. I believe that there will be a lot more mercy than justice being dished out at the judgment. Maybe he thinks it wouldn't be a bad idea to cheat - these women understand him. Almost everything is complicated. Many, many lapsed Mormons catch the true vision of the gospel at some time in their lives and desire to repent and become observant again. Can they keep a job and or clean up after themselves. I would have been deeply insulted if anyone talked about me the way people are talking about this girl He needs to tell her there is a no chance he will convert, that he is not comfortable with his children being raised Mormon if he isn'tthat she cannot ever expect a temple marriage with him. I was in your same position years ago. She, her family, and her friends all believe that she can't get into the Celestial Kingdom VIP Heaven unless she is "sealed" to a Mormon husband. If you can love them unconditionally with how they are now, then I say go for it.
I then asked some questions about some of the essays, and her answer to everything is "because god. Because you are a good person, you will recognize the influence of the Holy Ghost and know that the church is true. This post and the comments are an eye opener. Home no title About Contact.