You are offering an intimate part of your body — your mouth, your breath, your voice. Expert head queens are to be revered. These are people who truly, unabashedly love sucking dick. The rest of us regular people have to learn, and the only way to learn is to practice. And practice. On your knees! These are tips and pointers that anyone of any gender can appreciate — 24 tips for giving amazing head.
A word of warning from Alex Cheves.
1. Don’t overthink it
Oral sex, fellatio, blow jobs , head, etc, whatever you wanna call it, there are about as many nicknames for the act of blow-jobbery as you can get. And with all these names and slang terms, different techniques and tricks. And so all these probable millennia is this how time works?
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